I worked for almost 20 years with the elderly and when they would pass away, the family would come in to clean out their home and they would find towels never used, dishes never ate off, candles never burned. Not only was it never used, it was never enjoyed and now it was too late.
Kids grow up quick and life happens fast. Who is more special than your husband or children? Get out the special dishes, light the candles and enjoy, make them feel special. Don't wait til it is too late.
Life happens fast, what are you waiting on?